Morris County Challenger Little League

The Pioneers of the Challenger League

Ruben Fuentes — Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:44:09 -0500

In 1986 Ed Beardsley approached his son’s fourth-grade
teacher about forming an athletic program after school.
The students, not able to play regular baseball, needed an
alternative. All had some sort of motor deficiency and
disability. The first year five students started this informal
version of the Challenger program. They played catch with
a wiffle ball and eventually added a home plate and bases.
By the end of their first season, 14 children were playing
baseball with Ed Beardsley. In 1989 the team grew to include
27 children.
In 1989, Ed Beardsley accepted an invitation from Little
League Baseball to join a task force and assist in creating
a national program headed by Senator Robert Dole. Thanks
to the determination of this one dedicated father, today more
than 22,000 players participate in the Little League Challenger
Division.
Ed Beardsley was honored as the first Challenger Award
recipient in 1998 during the Little League World Series Award
Breakfast. Today he is joined by his son who now volunteers
as a buddy to players needing assistance.

‘Thank you, Ed and Dave Beardsley
For making our dreams come true’

From
Ruben Fuentes
President of
The Morris County Challenger Little League

The Hospital Window

Unknown — Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:44:03 -0500

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene. One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."
Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can’t buy. "Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."

The origin of this letter is unknown

Smile

Unknown — Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:43:53 -0500

A little boy walked to and from school daily.
Though the weather that morning
was questionable and clouds were
forming, he made his daily
trek to the elementary school.
As the afternoon progressed,
the winds whipped up,
along with thunder and lightning.

The mother of the little boy felt concerned
that her son would be frightened
as he walked home from school
and she herself feared that the electrical
storm might harm her child.

Following the roar of thunder,
lightning would cut through the sky like
a flaming sword.

Full of concern, the mother quickly got into
her car and drove along the route to her
child's school. As she did so, she saw her
little boy walking along, but at each flash
of lightning, the child would stop, look up
and smile. Another and another were to
follow quickly and with each the little boy
would look at the streak of light and smile.

When the mother's car drew up beside the
child, she lowered the window and called
to him, "What are you doing?
Why do you keep stopping?"

The child answered,
"I am trying to look nice.
God keeps taking my picture."

May God bless you today as you face
the storms that come your way!!

Something for Stevie

Dan Anderson — Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:43:48 -0500

I try not to be biased, but I had my doubts about hiring Stevie.
His placement counselor assured me that he would be a good,
reliable busboy. But I had never had a mentally handicapped
employee and wasn't sure I wanted one. I wasn't sure how my
customers would react to Stevie. He was short, a little dumpy,
with the smooth facial features and thick-tongued speech of
down syndrome. I wasn't worried about most of my trucker
customers, because truckers don't generally care who buses tables
as long as the meatloaf platter is good and the pies are homemade.
The four-wheeler drivers were the ones who concerned me; the
mouthy college kids traveling to school; the yuppie snobs who
secretly polish their silverware with their napkins for fear of
catching some dreaded "truckstop germ"; the pairs of white-shirted
business men on expense accounts who think every truckstop waitress
wants to be flirted with. I knew those people would be uncomfortable
around Stevie, so I closely watched him for the first few weeks.
I shouldn't have worried. After the first week, Stevie had my staff
wrapped around his stubby little finger, and within a month my trucker
regulars had adopted him as their official truckstop mascot. After that
I really didn't care what the rest of the customers thought of him. He was
like a 21-year-old in blue jeans and Nikes, eager to laugh and eager to
please, but fierce in his attention to his duties. Every salt and pepper
shaker was exactly in its place, not a bread crumb or coffee spill was
visible when Stevie got done with the table. Our only problem was
convincing him to wait to clean a table until after the customers were
finished. He would hover over them then he would scurry to the empty
table and carefully bus the dishes and glasses onto the cart and
meticulously wipe the table up with a practiced flourish of his rag.
If he thought a customer was watching, his brow would pucker with
added concentration. He took pride in doing his job exactly right, and
you had to love how hard he tried to please each and every person he met.
Over time, we learned that he lived with his mother, a widow who was
disabled after repeated surgeries for cancer. They lived on their Social
Security benefits in public housing two miles from the truckstop.
Their social worker, who stopped to check on him every so often,
admitted they had fallen between the cracks. Money was tight, and
what I paid him was the probably the difference between them being
able to live together and Stevie being sent to a group home.
That's why the restaurant was a gloomy place that morning last August,
the first morning in three years that Stevie missed work. He was at the
Mayo Clinic in Rochester getting a new valve or something put in his heart.
His social worker said that people with Down syndrome often had heart
problems at a early age, so this wasn't unexpected, and there was a good
chance he would come through the surgery in good shape and be back at
work in a few months. A ripple of excitement ran through the staff later
that morning when word came that he was out of surgery, in recovery and
doing fine. Frannie, my head waitress, let out a war hoop and did a little
dance the aisle when she heard the good news. Belle Ringer, one of our
regular trucker customers, stared at the sight of the 50-year-old grandmother
of four doing a victory shimmy beside his table. Frannie blushed, smoothed
her apron and shot Belle Ringer a withering look. He grinned. "OK, Frannie,
what was that all about?" he asked. "We just got word that Stevie is out of
surgery and going to be okay!" "I was wondering where he was. I had a new
joke to tell him. What was the surgery about?" Frannie quickly told Belle Ringer
and the other two drivers sitting at his booth about Stevie's surgery, then sighed.
"Yeah, I'm glad he is going to be okay," she said, " but I don't know how he
and his mom are going to handle all the bills. From what I hear, they're barely
getting by as it is. Belle Ringer nodded thoughtfully, and Frannie hurried off
to wait on the rest of her tables. Since I hadn't had time to round up a busboy
to replace Stevie, and really didn't want to replace him, the girls were busing
their own tables that day until we decided what to do. After the morning rush,
Frannie walked into my office. She had a couple of paper napkins in her hand
and a funny look on her face. "What's up?" I asked. "I didn't get that table
where Belle Ringer and his friends were sitting cleared off after they left, and
Pony Pete and Tony Tipper were sitting there when I got back to clean it off,
" she said, " This was folded and tucked under a coffee cup." She handed
the napkin to me, and three $20 bills fell onto my desk when I opened it.
On the outside, in big, bold letters, was printed "Something For Stevie".
"Pony Pete asked me what that was all about," she said, "so I told him about
Stevie and his mom and everything, and Pete looked at Tony and Tony looked
at Pete, and they ended up giving me this." She handed me another paper
napkin that had "Something For Stevie" scrawled on it's outside. Two $50 bills
were tucked within its folds. Frannie looked at me with wet, shiny eyes, shook
her head and said simply "Truckers." That was three months ago. Today is
Thanksgiving, the first day Stevie is supposed to be back to work. His
placement worker said he's been counting the days until the doctor said he
could work, and it didn't matter at all that it was a holiday. He called 10 times
in the past week, making sure we knew he was coming, fearful that we had
forgotten him or that his job was in jeopardy. I arranged to have his mother
bring him to work, met them in the parking lot and invited them both to
celebrate his day back. Stevie was thinner and paler, but couldn't stop
grinning as he pushed through the doors and headed for the back room where
his apron and busing cart were waiting. "Hold up there, Stevie, not so fast, "
I said. I took him and his mother by their arms. "Work can wait for a minute.
To celebrate you coming back, breakfast for you and your mother is on me."
I led them toward a large corner booth at the rear of the room. I could feel and
hear the rest of the staff following behind as we marched through the dining room.
Glancing over my shoulder, I saw booth after booth of grinning truckers empty
and join the possession. We stopped in front of the big table. Its surface was
covered with coffee cups; saucers and dinner plates, all sitting slightly crooked
on dozens of folded paper napkins. "First thing you have to do, Stevie, is clean
up this mess," I said. I tried to sound stern. Stevie looked at me, and then at his
mother, then pulled out one of the napkins. It had "Something for Stevie printed
on the outside. As he picked it up, two $10 bills fell onto the table. Stevie stared
at the money, then at all the napkins peeking from beneath the tableware, each
with his name printed or scrawled on it. I turned to his mother. "There's more
than $10,000 in cash and checks on that table, all from truckers and trucking
companies that heard about your problems. Happy Thanksgiving."
Well, it got real noisy about that time, with everybody hollering and shouting,
and there were a few tears, as well... But you know what's funny?
While everybody else was busy shaking hands and hugging each other,
Stevie, with a big, big smile on his face, was busy clearing all the cups
and dishes from the table... Best worker I ever hired... and.

Welcome to Holland

Emily Pearl Kingsley — Tue, 15 Jan 2008 22:43:42 -0500

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising
a child with a disability, to try to help people who have
not shared that experience to understand it, to imagine
how it would feel. It’s like this . . .
When you’re going to have a baby, it’s like planning a
fabulous vacation trip to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide
books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum,
Michelangelo’s David, the gondolas in Venice. You may
learn some handy phrases in Italian. It’s all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives.
You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later,
the plane lands. The flight attendant comes in and says,
“Welcome to Holland.” “Holland?” You say, “what do you
mean, Holland? I signed up for Italy! I’m supposed to be in
Italy. All my life I’ve dreamed of going to Italy!”
But there has been a change in the flight plan. They’ve
landed in Holland and there you must stay. The important
thing is that they haven’t taken you to a horrible,
disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine, and
disease. It’s just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guidebooks. And you must
learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new
group of people you would never have met. It’s just a different
place. It’s slower paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy.
But after you’ve been there for a while you begin to notice that
Holland has windmills, Holland has tulips, Holland has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy, and
they’re all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there.
And for the rest of you’re life, you will say, “yes, that’s where I was
supposed to go. That’s what I had planned.” And the pain of that will
never, ever go away, because the loss of that dream is a very
significant loss.
But if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn’t get to Italy,
you may never be free to enjoy the very lovely things about Holland.